counseling usually consisted of dear John
letters, sickness at home, fear of death, guilt, use of drugs,
alcohol, loneliness, homesickness, fear that their wives are
stepping out on them, VD, etc
I am as convinced today as I was then that
vets and soldiers always search for the basic answers to life
when faced with the unknown. There is something about
combat and death which strips away the facades and pretenses
of formalities in a world of loneliness, suffering, grief and
death. I saw many in my unit who did not survive
mentally or physically. According to the medical
doctors, some died who should have lived and others lied who
should have died. the difference in many cases was in
the will to live and return to their families.
I remember my Commander asking me to fly those
sunset missions with him to identify where the enemy was
located by looking for smoke or any lights so that artillery
could be used to wipe out the enemy. I was asked to fly
because other staff officers were afraid to fly. We lost
many choppers during my stay in the unit. No one wanted
to be shot down in this hostile are of operations. I
said I would fly as an observer. I flew over 100 combat
hours and was one of the first chaplains to be awarded the Air
Medal and the Bronze Star.
The "grunts", Sgt., commanders, helicopter
pilots, takers, nurses, doctors, lawyers, and chaplains I knew
were often pushed to the edge of their emotional and spiritual
faith. Some went over the edge, never to come back.
Others came back to "the world" broken, in despair, lonely,
misunderstood, to a nation who didn't care and to families who
didn't understand why the United states was even involved in
the war.
Among the painful legacies of Vietnam was the
loss of religious faith by many GI's, rage directed against
God, fundamental moral and ethical questions unresolved
cynicism and one in particular that is found in almost all of
the stories - guilt and/or survival guilt. To deal with
guilt, may simply convince themselves that they are "okay"
vets or grunts and then go about the business of living in an
addicted lifestyle of alcoholism ad drug abuse. Guilt
reaches more deeply into the human soul than our society is
willing to admit. When we violate our conscience ad act
against the moral and ethical standards of the universe placed
there by God, we experience a appropriate sense of guilt which
must by dealt with before healing can come to the soul, mind
and spirit.
My experiences in Vietnam indicate that most
soldiers dealt with their emotional trauma with alcohol,
drugs, prostitution, hard-core pornography, black marketing,
add flagging. This was happening in my Squadron, I
didn't like it. My Commander did not lie it. We
simply had to live with these negative behaviors. My
fears of the unknown were not so much of the enemy, but of our
troops, who were out of control. According to the
stories of the GI's that I counseled, drinking, smoking pot,
watching hard-core pornography which lead to rape of VN women
was a way of lessening the pain, fear, and guilt by helping
them forget the consequences of war. It became a vicious
and destructive cycle in their thinking and behavior that led
to flagging of fellow soldiers and numerous attacks by the
enemy.
This guilt remained and was embedded in the
psyche mind and trapped in the center of the soul of many
Vietnam veterans - causing what we NOW call Post Vietnam
Syndrome. soldiers and veterans can never afford
themselves the luxury off this kind of rationalization for the
addictive behavior.
What happened in the jungles, villages, clubs
of Vietnam really was horrendous and evil. For those who
haven't read Dr. Peck's books The Road Less Traveled
and People of the Lie, on evil,
do so. You will then have a better understanding of the
evil forces at work that destroy the spirit and will of
people. I certainly felt that evil, but my faith in a
living God, and Gods assurance that His angels would protect
me in times of danger certainly is a part of my story. I
stayed focused i my faith which gave me the confidence
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